I’ve been trying to find the right words to say to give a proper introduction to this wedding, but I shut down my MAC several times with failed attempts. Each wedding has its own unique story, and I’m always completely honored to tell every single one…… but this one was quite different.
so deep breathe, and here we go.
Sonja and Cody’s day was envisioned much differently than in the images you’re about to see below. From an exciting & romantic elopement planned in Santorini Greece in May…. to a wild, love-filled celebration with family and friends later this year. But, as with most every couple who decided 2020 was the year to tie the knot, their original wedding + travel plans were cancelled due to Covid19.
When it came down to it, the most important thing was to have their family present…. and Sonja’s dad had stage 4 cancer. *gulp* Cue the tightness in my throat and ache in my chest. The clock was working against them, and every day counted… knowing very well it could be his last. So they decided to get married in May anyways.
because at the end of the day…. it’s not about the dress, the flowers, the location, or even the weather… it’s being surrounded by the people you love that matters the most.
The morning of the wedding, Sonja’s dad (Daniel) had to go into the hospital for an emergency surgery for a brain leak…. not something I’ve ever witnessed anyone having to do on a wedding day- especially the father of the bride. However, everything went as well as it could have, so he left the hospital in Milwaukee to drive straight up to the ceremony in Malone, Wisconsin. I knew he was very uncomfortable…. I could tell he was nauseous, and even in pain… but he masked it well, and it didn’t stop him. I can’t begin to describe what it feels like to take photos of someone you know will be some of the their last…. it’s oddly beautiful but tragically painful at the same time. He smiled through it all, and gathered the strength he needed to walk Sonja down the aisle. And he did just that.
Although I only met you once Daniel, may you rest in peace…. I will carry the strength I witnessed in you forever.
